It's always putridly frustrating. Like, really, I get that, at one point or another in his life, he was probably obese, but that was then. This time is now. He's a handsome, tall-ish boy with a slim build and lovely arms and legs and the comfiest chest ever. So he should shush and just accept that. And it makes me really sad, because how am I supposed to feel good about myself when someone who's at an appropriate weight for their height feels inadequate? He blames his recent so-called weight gain on being happy, but what? Would he rather be a sadface and not weigh as much?